Relationships: "Who Cheats The Most? Men or Women?" Must Read!

"Who cheats the most? Men or Women?" This is a topic that leaves both parties arguing endlessly.

I get somewhat pissed each time I see people argue unreasonably over this topic. 

If you say every man is a cheat, how are you sure about that? Have you dated every single man in the world? If you say it's the women, I'll reiterate the same question, 'Have you dated every single woman in the world?

Come on guys. Let's stop being biased based on gender and tell the truth which is that, 'Both parties cheat!'

This morning, I was seeing a post on my friend's blog about the Oyakhilome's divorce saga. I decided to see the comments that followed and I saw the same topic being slightly tipped-in by a girl's comment.

In response to the divorce saga surrounding Pastor Chris Oyakhilome and wife, Anita, a blog reader, Atinuke Bello commented:

"Letting strange people interfer in ur marriage is a vip ticket to downfall,even if he's cheating,if u pray and u both sit and talk u'll work it out,think of ur children,I pray my future husband does not cheat on me,but if he does,I cannot kill myself,I'll only tell him not to give me disease,men it's in their gene to cheat."

See screenshot below:

Meanwhile, I was immediately impressed by the reply that followed.

A guy, Vizzy, replied:

"Same goes to women, nobody is perfect." 

Now, back to our discussion... the fact is that, both parties cheat with but it solely depends on a person's tendency of abstaining from it.

I'm not trying to deny the fact that men don't do it the most but hey, women shouldn't be exonerated here.

Men are naturally polygamous in nature but it depends on each man's ability to control himself - the latter also applies to women. It's a natural phenomenon as long as you're human but what makes you get irritated when it happens is that your ability to cheat is low so you see things from a different angle.

When someone's ability or desire to cheat is high, they see it as nothing. In fact, they do it in every relationship they're involved in and as such, it could reflect in their marital life.

Most men want to see what's beneath every skirt that walks pass them in as much as we have women that can't do a day without tasting a different honey stick.

Let me tell you something, not every girl prostitutes for money. There are some girls that can never be satisfied by one man. No matter how hard you try, your cock is just half way to satisfying them that is why most of them prostitute for sexual pleasure.

I was scrolling down my Facebook news feed recently when a girl out of heartbreak posted, "All men are dogs," my reply to her was "What specie is your dad :)?" and she interestingly picked offence.

You see? When you label all men as cheats, your dad is certainly inclusive. Don't condemn all men simply because your past boyfriends all cheated. Come on darling, there's one good guy out there.

I wouldn't say 'All women are cheats' simply because my ex-girlfriends all cheated on me. I'm just unlucky to have met the flirty ones.

When two contented parties of high morals and decent values meet, cheating is NEVER an option. They see one million persons in each other.

A real man won't love hundred girls in one way but a real man would love one girl in a hundred ways. Same applies to girls.

Well, I have loads to write on this topic but I'll stop here for now. Meanwhile, feel free to drop your comments below to express your opinion. But I'll stand on, 'both parties cheat.' Though men are a bit..... #CommentReserved ..LOL

SHARE THIS