One question that often rings in your head is "Does s/he truly love me?" Most times, you just can't find an answer to that question and even when you speak to friends about it, they don't come up with something concrete. Here, I've put together, 7 signs that can help you know if your partner truly loves you.
I call them "hard-to-miss" signs because someone who really loves you does them without even knowing - love compels them. Read below..
1. Wants To Spend Time With You:
When someone truly loves you, s/he will do everything they can to spend time with you irrespective of their schedule. Both of you might be occupied due to family, work, or other relevant commitments but someone who truly cares about you will always squeeze out time because they simply can't do without you.
2. 'We' Automatically Replaces 'I':
Someone who loves you includes you in everything s/he does. He plans for both of you which makes them fond of using the word "we" instead of "i". Another word they'll start using is "us". It simply means your lover sees you as part of his/her life.
3. Fighting And Apologizing:
The truth is, you can never know how strong a relationship is until you both have a good fight. Someone who loves you isn't afraid to fight and s/he says "sorry" whenever s/he wrongs you - putting pride aside. No matter who your partner might be outside, no matter his/her status at work, they set pride aside when they're with you.
4. Respects Your Views:
Whenever you speak to your partner, s/he will listen. Someone who loves you will always listen to you no matter how senseless what you're saying might be. S/he listens calmly and corrects you boldly when s/he feels you're wrong.
5. Asks About Your Day:
This is a very obvious way of knowing if your partner truly cares about you. When you guys are together, does your partner ask how you spent your day? Does s/he tries to find out what happened at work? Even if you're not together, such interests keeps communication routes open.
6. Showing Affection:
You don't necessarily need to engage in frequent s*x to be emotionally intimate. However, showing some sign of physical attraction and closeness bonds the both of you. Example, resting your head on her shoulder, frequent hugging or holding hands while walking suggests that your partner feels some vital connection in you.
7. Admires You:
Someone who loves you is quick to admire you. They don't hesitate telling you how good you look and they always thank God for blessing them with you. Someone who hardly notices your new hair-do or shirt cares less about you.
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Wow I'm amazed I think my partner does 5 of those things , I hope dats enough to show me dat he trully loves me
ReplyDeleteoh, nice tips. thanks. more pls
ReplyDeleteMine doesn't do any pf those thank anyway for tip
ReplyDeleteYou need to get out
DeleteWow i have al 7 :)
Deletemy man always fight with n nvr apologise even if he's wrong i have to apologise for the things i don't even know
Deletefighting is part of life, keeping on praying for the good one day you shall rejoice in everything
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DeleteWow,now i know that am truly love coz he does all of that.THNX for tips:-)
ReplyDeleteThanks for the tips
ReplyDeleteWel my partner does,nt do any of dis anyway tanks for de tips
ReplyDeleteWow am amazed by the words my partner does 6 of them n I hope it's pretty cool . Thanks
ReplyDeleteIf u show sm1 hw u feel abt him/her they will tke advantange nd cheat! I dont do these tings daily bt it got its own tym
ReplyDeleteI don't agree with you. Does that mean you are cheating on your partner?
DeleteCool my partner does everything. Thanks for the tips
ReplyDeleteD tips ar 9c& awesome. Am d most lucky woman on earth. My husband is d BEST!!!
ReplyDeleteMy husband must read this. Nice tips! God bless u!
ReplyDeleteAll the above thanks for d tips
ReplyDeleteWow! Nice1
ReplyDeleteAhhh m partner is trying even though it's nt enof
ReplyDeleteMy partner 7 of them.... felling so lucky to have her
ReplyDeleteWow in our marraige we do all 5 things
ReplyDeleteM hsbnd dnt ivin do 1 of ds
ReplyDeleteAwesome....lucky we, tnx 4 d tips
ReplyDeleteMY GIRL DOES ALL DAT AM BLESSED I HAVE TO LOVE HER MORE THANKS.
ReplyDeletewot can i do to my own partner? If will r 2gether she do 5 bu when wii r fa distance she does nt. But i need her
ReplyDeletewhaa,then i need help,my partner do the opposite,am in a cheating relationship.kindly help
ReplyDeleteHe does most of them. Thanks for the tips
ReplyDeleteim in anew relationship an he does all dis and more..thanx for making me realise hw lucky iam to hv hm in my life..thanx alot
ReplyDeleteAm lucky she exactly doescall this.
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Deleteam so glad my guy deos all this tip even from a distance.now i kw he really loves me thanks.
ReplyDeleteMy partner does thm all I love him 2 bits
ReplyDeleteMy hisband dose all of the a
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Thanks. God bless you
Wow!! I cant belive that man git a perfect score... And take note we are in a long distance relationship.. Now i miss him so bad!... Thank u!! God bless and more power!!!
ReplyDeleteMy parner got 1/7
ReplyDeleteWell I need some one else my don't do any
ReplyDeletebetter you find someone else.. Don't stay alone.
Deletewow ma partner got 7/7 im blessed
ReplyDeleteMy boyfriend does all of them. That makes me feel very guilty coz i thought he was a passing by. I didn't take him seriously when he says he loves me
ReplyDeleteWhn dd u meet with yo boyfriend?
DeleteWow great of late my girl doesn't msg me or check about my welfare though am far away from her now but I do check on her wefare and feelings now know but I talk to her abt it and she appologised bt am nt sure all is well pls what should I do I love her so much pls advice me on this
ReplyDeletewell i think that u just need to be very detective about her love if not u may not end up with her. try to fine out what she likes and then suprise her in many ways i think she will be attracted by ur suprices and that can push her to have more intrest in you. b/c women like when u suprice them.try to make her to feel that she is special and represent something very special and important in ur life, i think that can also call her attention towards u. u just need to play ur role very well man
DeleteThanks for advice I will play my role but am overseas and she is in Africa might be that's another prob of surprising her with gift but I send her money every month and she hates wen I confined to any of her friend concerning her misbehaviour or her mistakes in our relationship items she got bitter with me and refused to answer my calls so what next please should I do ?
ReplyDeleteSimple, don't discuss your issues with anyone else asides your partner. Not everyone like it.
DeleteWoow nice tips indeed thankx anyway bt my partner doesn't do any of those, l hve 2 apologoze everytym we fight even though he is the 1 who is wrong.
DeleteMy bf does sum n he always thnk god 4 giving us this precious luv.i luv him more
ReplyDeleteThank God for the love that mine is showing to me. She does all of this and add more. She is a God sent. She loves me more than i even do and i love her too. She is an Angel living in a human form. I thank God for us. She is all that i'm asking for.
ReplyDeleteThanks for the Advice....
Wow mine does all of them tnxs
ReplyDeletethankz palz my spouse dos four and we dont spend tym togeda dats s alwayz d issues we hve, wot shld i do
ReplyDeleteThanks for your advice but mine doesn't do it at all.pls advice me on what to do.
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Thank am bless wit my man
ReplyDeleteMy don't do any of these...what an ass
ReplyDeleteMy woman does al the 7. Nw am sure she truly loves me. She tells me evrydy bt nvr thot in dat way.
ReplyDeletema woman said i have all 7
ReplyDeletemy is quite over everthing and anything. what do i do?
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