Dear Kay, I'm a regular reader of your blog. I'm a 36-year-old married woman who lives in Abuja.
I have been married for 6 years without an issue. Throughout our years of not having a child, my husband has always stood by me. We have always prayed together and believe God for a miracle.
Even when my mother-in-law told my husband to divorce me, he refused to do it because he loves me.
What baffled me most was when his younger sister visited us. She said all manner of words to me and laughed at me for not being able to have a child but my husband rebuked her and I will never forget what he did that night, he held my hands in tears and assured me he will be with me in prayers until God answers us with a fruit of the womb.
Two weeks ago, my husband traveled on a business trip and decided to visit his father before coming home. He ended up spending two days and when he returned, he changed.
He suddenly started shouting at me and picking offence at every little thing I do.
Last night, I cried my heart out when he opened up to me that he has decided to marry a second wife. I can't imagine myself living as a second wife, moreover, it is a sin before God.
Dear, KayNaija readers, please advice me because my marriage is coming to an end. I don't know what to do, please help.
true love never die.This man would have stood by you no matter what.This shows he has changed and you have to make a choice.Carolly-Kenya
ReplyDeletedear woman, i think u just have to be prayerful. derez every possibility that his family succeeded in poisoning his mind when he visited his father.
ReplyDeletei pray everythin will be alright, just hav faith in God, itz well
why are men so heartless?
ReplyDeleteif you walk with God,you won't run with the world.Trust your instinct.Carolly-kenya
ReplyDeleteif he decides to marry second wife let him be, bcos u re rightful wife to him and dont create any hatred. God will surely intervain in ur suituation as long as u remain faithful to him.
ReplyDeleteMadam neva lost ur faith bcos he will neva disappoint u counting 2 b dat faithful n luvly u use 2 b god will definetly visit him
ReplyDeleteBelieve that there is nothing the Lord cannot do madam. The Lord can change your situation only pray and have faith
ReplyDeleteKeep praying Sister, GOD WILL work it out you.
ReplyDeleteGod will guide you through this let him take the wheel.
ReplyDeleteAmeeeeeeen to all d prays said above. It is well.
ReplyDeleteWho knows it could be him who is barren. Let him prove the point.
ReplyDeletelet him marry the second wife this god is of miracle do not give up
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